Tips for Leading
One on One with God Groups

1. One disciple alone or up to six disciples being trained in the same group is acceptable. Four disciples being trained in the same group is probably ideal because:
   • There is enough time for everyone to participate in class.
   • Group members learn and are challenged by each other.
   • Prayer partners for the disciples can be other class members.
2. When we first began making disciples, we met with just one disciple at a time. One advantage to this was that we could include the disciples in our personal lives and ministry. Remember that the One on One with God lifestyle is caught as well as taught.
3. It is wise for men to disciple men and women to disciple women. If it is necessary for a man or woman to disciple people of the opposite sex, make sure it takes place in a group. Never meet to disciple only one person of the opposite sex unless you are husband and wife.
4. If possible, meet in a home with as few distractions as possible. A relaxed, homelike atmosphere is very helpful.
5. Allow about two hours for each session, although some of the sessions may not require quite that much time.
6. If you serve refreshments, keep them simple and not time-consuming. Coffee, tea, or a soft drink should be sufficient.
7. Practice what you teach. God and the disciples are watching you.
8. Do not be uneasy or impatient with periods of silence when you ask questions. Let the disciples know that it is okay to think about their responses. You may need to rephrase your question.
9. Teach with humility. Let the disciples know that you also are on this journey of spiritual growth.
10. Our purpose in discipling is to produce true disciples who will invest their lives in making disciples. This is best accomplished by keeping your groups small—six or fewer in each group.
11. Use the online audio sessions as a refresher before you lead your group.

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